My Wife Left Me With Nothing After Confronting Her About Her Cheating, I Have Als

She took everything. Location: PNW

Long story short, I was diagnosed with ALS a few months ago, and knew that I wanted to focus as much as I could on treatment, plus saving for my wife and I to travel the world, I guess like a bucket list, also making sure she was as financially secure as possible because eventually this will kill me.. life insurance, savings, the works. I had a lot of money saved for this.

I’m keeping everything condensed

Last week, I found the edges of a condom wrapped jammed between the bed and frame, while changing the sheets.. confronted her and she admitted eventually that yeh she was cheating on me. Fucking devastating news to receive while I’m fucking dying and worked my ass off 60 hours a week to save and provide.

I did everything for her always, everything. Anything she wanted.. and now that I can’t really work anymore and it’s her turn to help, get a job to cover some expenses like bills and OOP medical stuff, the vibe changed immediately. Like basically almost instantly. I feel so fucking stupid for ignoring the signs.

The final kicker, is she drained our mutual accounts, took most of my shit, minus clothes, my car obviously and some furniture, has left me fucking destitute, alone, the day before thanksgiving. The bank isn’t being fucking helpful, I called the cops and they said… “oh it’s civil. Blah blah blah”

Like dude, I just wanna give up now. I feel like everything is over and there’s no point anymore.

Someone please tell me this is going to be ok. She was my focus. My everything. I sacrificed friendships because of her jealousy. I grew up adopted and since my parents died years ago always been a bit of a loner, I think she saw this and took advantage of me.