Why Men Are Done Being Told To ‘be A Real Man’ In Modern Dating

Men today are DONE being told to “be a real man” in modern dating. In this video, Josten J breaks down why men are rejecting society’s double standards, the pressure to perform masculinity on command, and the dating expectations women place on men without offering anything in return. If you’re tired of being shamed for expressing your boundaries, choosing your peace, or refusing to play a role that doesn’t benefit you, this video is for you.

We’ll cover why men are walking away, why modern dating has become so one-sided, and how the “real man” narrative is used to manipulate men into providing, pursuing, and proving themselves. Today’s men are choosing self-respect, purpose, and emotional independence — and refusing to be guilt-tripped for it.

Josten J dives deep into:
Why men are staying single
The real reason men are done with modern women
How manipulation is used by women dating in 2025
Why men are walking away from traditional expectations
Why men are done with modern dating standards to be real men

If you’re focused on becoming stronger mentally, leveling up in your masculine frame, and understanding how modern dating really works, watch this all the way through. This Dating advice for men is key!

0:00 Women Define Real Men
1:00 Men Respond to Standards
1:46 Boyfriends and Financial Expectations
3:00 Introduction - Him Gang
3:09 Real Man Definition Problem
3:41 Where Are Good Men
5:07 Good Men vs What Women Want
6:09 Good Guy Label Explained
6:39 Too Nice Problem
8:10 Real Man as Provider and Leader
9:53 Ideal Man Traits Contradiction
11:11 Raising Children and Family
12:03 Self-Reliance and Discipline
13:13 Leadership Not Followership
14:43 Character and Self-Worth
15:17 Men Opening Up in 2025

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