Who Do You Have To Be To Be Loved? Shapeshifting For Acceptance | Dating Advice
Are you changing who you are to earn someone’s approval? Social pressure, dating dynamics, and everyday interactions can quietly pull you away from your true identity. Learn how to stop morphing for THEM and return to the powerful center point of who you really are.
Fluidly adjusting your comportment to match a situation can be strategic, as long as you retain your truthful center point. Left unchecked, this automatic survival instinct erodes your True Self, and especially so when seeking love.
The seduction of a new relationship can urge you to become someone you’re not, for THEIR approval. Here’s how to integrate the many aspects of your personality, rather than assimilate completely to be what you think “they“ want you to be.
1. Noticing How You Morph (Alter) for THEM
2. Integration, not Assimilation
3. Solidifying Your Centerpoint (Your True Self)
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00:00 Introduction
00:14 The Approval Prison
00:47 How Approval Seeking Began
01:21 Many Versions of YOU
02:18 The Pressure of Acceptance
03:19 Your Center Point
04:34 Losing Ourselves To Get LOVE
05:41 Integration
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