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Too Nice? That’s Why You Keep Getting Hurt | Dating Advice

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There’s a downside to being too nice in a relationship. Overly agreeable behavior can dampen your partner’s attraction. Here’s how to be nice and have boundaries.

Teresa writes, “Wonderful Susan: What if my ex’s, while problematic, weren’t the problem? What if it was my structural design of pushing down my own needs, prioritizing theirs, then growing resentful? What if I took being loving and being the “good girl” to extremes that benefited no one and how do I show up authentically, rather than manufactured, moving forward? Bisoux.”

Are you stuck in being a good girl? Afraid to speak up when hurt or push back when your needs aren’t being met? Age you the good guy? Always there for your partner, who’s never there for you? Patient to a fault and doing all the work to keep your partner even-keeled?

This video is for you. You can be loving and not lose yourself in the process.

1. Too Nice Creates Resentment
2. Setting Boundaries with Diplomacy
3. Loving Them Without Losing Yourself
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03:39 Problem with Opposites
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