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The 1 Text You Should 'never' Send To A Girl, According To A Dating Coach
Professional dating coach Blaine Anderson has revealed the one text message you should "never" send to a girl in the dating world.
Texting can be a difficult thing in the dating world, at least early on. You don't want to text too much and come across as overeager. However, you don't want to text too little and come across as uninterested. There needs to be a good balance.
Anderson, a professional dating coach, is here to help with that. She studied at the University of Arizona and started helping her guy friends in their dating lives back then.
"My guy friends would ask me for dating advice about my sorority sisters," she wrote.
"The BEST guys had the WORST luck with girls, and it confused me. I became obsessed with figuring out why. Do women hate nice guys? Or is there another problem?"
Blaine Anderson didn't hold back.Blaine Anderson.
Blaine Anderson says that there's one text message you should "never" send to a girl in the dating world.
The one text message to never send: "Hey, what do you want to do tonight?"
Anderson said that this is just a brutal text message to send to someone you're interested in. If you are pursuing a woman, it's on you to plan the date.
"She doesn't want to plan the date," Anderson said.
"She wants to date a man with a plan. Never forget this."
Anderson expanded on her thoughts.
"You can 100% ask for her input on a date idea. But come to the table with ideas. Single women are looking for guys who aren’t afraid to take the lead," she said.
Anderson clarified that this advice is for people that have been on less than five dates with a specific girl. Once you're seeing someone seriously, it's OK to ask what they want to do on a given night.
However, early on, it's on you to make a plan.
