Men, Stop Chasing Her Until You Hear This.. #stopchasing #relationshipadvice #datingtips

Men, have you ever felt like she only wants you when you stop trying? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

You want her back, even though she’s avoidant. Every time you lean in, she backs off. Then when you finally pull away, she suddenly shows interest again. Sound familiar?

This is a classic avoidant pattern — and it keeps you stuck in an emotional loop that never leads anywhere healthy. Avoidant women crave closeness but fear it at the same time. So when you show up emotionally available, it triggers her defenses. But the second you withdraw, it feels “safe” for her to come closer again.

Yes, sometimes cutting off attention will get her back — but that’s not the point. The real question is: if your needs aren’t being met now, will they ever be? You don’t want to win her back just to end up stuck in the same painful cycle. You want a relationship where connection doesn’t feel like a game of push and pull — one where both people can meet each other halfway.

Know your worth. Don’t chase someone who only values you when you walk away.

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