June 25, 2025

Happy Wednesday, Out readers!
Need some dating advice? Queer dating can be one of the most confusing and complicated things we do, so it's always good to get some advice from people who know what they're talking about! Thankfully, we have an exclusive interview with several queer Netflix reality stars talking about their dating dos and don'ts!
Lexi Goldberg from The Ultimatatum: Queer Love season 1 let us in on the best and worst dating advice she's ever received.
"The best piece of dating advice I’ve ever gotten is going to sound so corny, but truly just be yourself and don’t overthink it. Oh, and if there’s flags, run!" she says. "The truth is that we have to be ourselves or else we are creating false connections. We want someone to love us for us, and they have to know the real us for that to happen."
As for the worst advice she's gotten?
"I think the worst is truly playing the game!" she says. "We always think we have to play games with people and that somehow it’ll make them more interested in us or we’ll seem less available."
The Circle and Too Hot to Handle's Chloe Veitch agrees. When asked what the worst dating advice she's received is, she says, "'Play hard to get.' Babe no. If I like someone, I'm not going to sit there pretending I don't. I'm passionate, I'm fiery, I'll gas you up and bring all the energy."
Check out our exclusive story to find out more dating dos and don'ts!
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