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Dating Coach Reveals The No. 1 Sign A Woman Isn't Interested

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Dating in 2025 can be tough, but professional dating coaches are out there to help.

Blaine Anderson, a former University of Arizona student who began her career in the travel industry, has created her own dating coach platform. Dating By Blaine has helped thousands of men meet their significant others. Anderson, who has appeared on "Shark Tank," has built up a big-time following on social media.

The professional dating coach has more than 700,000 followers on her social media profile. Anderson likes to share a lot of dating tips on her platform.

Recently, Anderson shared the No. 1 way to realize that a woman isn't interested.

Blaine Anderson has revealed the No. 1 way to realize a woman isn't interested.

Blaine Anderson.

According to Anderson, the No. 1 way to realize that a woman isn't interested in you is simple: Effort.

If a woman is taking a while to respond to your texts, or being flaky about planning a date, or not being enthusiastic when you're out with her, the answer is simple: she's not that interested.

Sure, everyone is busy and people have things going on outside of dating. But if you are genuinely interested in someone, you are going to make time for them. If a potential dating partner isn't doing that, it's time to cut ties.

"Effort equals interest," Anderson says. "If she's not putting in effort, then back off and find somebody who will."

Anderson gets a lot of questions from men on social media about why someone might not be responding to their text messages, or ghosting them for a couple of days, or something else in that department.

Unfortunately, the answer is always pretty straightforward: It means they are not that interested in you.

Maybe there's some slight interest, or maybe they are keeping you around thinking things could change, but everyone should want someone that they are 100 percent excited abouit.


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