Are You Sabotaging Your Relationships? #sabotage #relationshipadvice #datingtips #mensmentalhealth

Men, what’s something small you’ve fixated on in a relationship that almost made you walk away? Share your experiences in the comments below.

Are you sabotaging your relationship without realizing it? When things aren’t perfect, it’s easy to start obsessing over the details—“She doesn’t cuddle enough,” “We don’t laugh as much as we used to,” etc. But this is the 20%—the surface-level stuff.

If you only focus on what’s missing, you lose sight of the 80% that actually works: shared values, emotional safety, future goals, trust, and respect. That 80% is your foundation. That’s what creates long-term connection.

Before you pull away, ask yourself: Are we aligned on the big things? If the answer is yes, don’t let minor frustrations sabotage something real.

You might just be walking away from something solid because you’re chasing perfection. DM us for support or clarity.

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